Easter was a success

As always the holidays make me extremely anxious. We don't know how Nathan is going to respond to the excitement of it all. But he had the most amazing day. From the minute he woke up to the minute he went to bed he had a blast.

Simple things like an Easter egg hunt for an almost 4 year old you wouldn't think nothing of. They typically know what they're doing and they're pros. This was Nathan's first hunt and I was so nervous he wasn't going to do it, understand it, or even like it for that matter. But...he loved it!!! He did amazing and I couldn't be more proud.

Autism has it's highs and lows. But the highs make all the lows you go through so worth it. I love my little man so much it hurts.

Happy Easter!!!

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