The other day we were in line at the store. Nathan got to pick out candy and he was so excited. He put his candy on the counter and watched as I was checking out. He was jumping up and down and flapping his arms like he does when he is super excited. Nathan has always "flapped" out of excitement. He will jump and flap, he will lay on the ground and flap. It's a form of stimulation for him and very common in autism. There were some older gentlemen behind us in line and they were commenting about how excited Nathan was for his candy, in a very kind way. It's very cute to watch him. His joy radiates when he gets super excited about something. It really is the cutest thing to see. But as I was driving home from the store, I got to thinking about Nathan's future. He's getting older. At 5 years old jumping up and down and flapping your hands is cute. But I know that it won't be considered "cute" when he's bigger, older. What happens when the ...